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my bf and i broke up. he packed up everything and even took the dildos. is that gross? should i ask for them back? they were a present for me so why did he take them... no he has no fetish. and he's not gay

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5 replies since 8th March 2010 • Last reply 8th March 2010

oh my god thats crazy 2 choices you can ask 4 them back and maybe hear him make rude comments or if you aren't embarrassed wait till u see him with a new girl and tell her not to let him use any recycled dildos on her.maybe he uses them when u arent looking what a butthole

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I don't think there was any real or deep reason behind him taking them. I suspect he took them because he could. By this I mean breakups are never clean and tidy in my experience and they can bring out the worst in all of us at times. I've done the pettiest things in the past to make myself feel a bit better and more in control. I spent I whole evening going through old photos and neatly trimming an ex out of all of them. I then cut him into tiny little bits and tipped the bits in the bin. I suspect taking something so personal to you and him made him feel good and in control. As time passes I suspect he will look at them and wonder what the hell was going on in his head but there is so many feelings going on when the break up is fresh that sometimes you do things which make no sense.

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I moved out of an ex-boyfriends in the middle of the night after he had been locked up for drink driving for the umteenth time. I took all the spoons!!! Lol. Then I put all the bills in his name and had the TV rental guy call to pick up the telly. Silly, but it made me feel a bit better x

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He probably took them because of the following;

in his mind "well now she hasn't got me or her 'stand ins' ".

Send him a message saying something like..... hi, I just realised that you picked up my 2 rubber friends, unless you are thinking of using them, I would like them back, but please take your time as I don't need them for the forseeable future.

Make him think that you have a replacement for both him and the dildos.

Alternatively, write a message on his Facebook wall, saying " (insert his name) can I please have the dildos back that you borrowed from me? I hope the experiment went ok..... oh and tip for next time, try using them with lube, they hurt less when you pull them out"....

sorry, I couldn't resist the temptation, but then I'm mean like that (apparently) lol =)

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Oh, man, I would absolutely post the second 'wall message', that would pwn him so bad!!
Yeah, breakups are nuts. When I was leaving my (now ex-)husband, he decided I'd been sleeping with someone else, and proceeded to demand which parts of my body(or his property) the other guy had touched. But he's seriously nuts. He's a sociopath, so he's the exest of the exes, Happy.
Most likely, after a few weeks, you'll both calm down, and maybe be able to have a rational conversation. I hear that's what normal people do, anyway ; P

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