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LONG TIME NO SEE!!

You see, my boyfriend (now ex) turned into a controlling freak. I WASNT ALLOWED TO CRAFT!!And i had to work atleast 40 hours a week, at a job i hated, and i was never cooking enough, never cleaning enough, and than he cheated on me with a 16 year old. And than when i said he needed to grow a pair he dumped me and kicked me out. So i am now living at my aunts.

I am BACK i think, i may have a hard time being on alot, im trying to get a new job. I am in a new town, so its cool. I now live in ALberta. and i will update my profile soon Happy Missed you all

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13 replies since 12th March 2010 • Last reply 12th March 2010

Welcome back and congrats on getting away from someone like that! You are a better and stronger person for it! Happy
Now go out and craft!!! Happy

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wow, he sounds like an idiot. congrats from escaping him Happy now you can get your life back to how YOU want it!!

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I thought we hadn't seen you about for a bit but had no idea you were going through all of this. It takes a lot of guts to do what you did so well done and welcome back Happy

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Hello Jasmin
Think I may have joined while you 'away'. Welcome back to being a 'human doing' rather than a 'human been'. It's hard to make big changes in life.......this one sounds like a good move. I had a controlling ex who used to tell me how to dress. He liked Marks & Spencer stuff so I looked 20yrs older than I was! Good luck x

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Glad your back. Sorry you had to go through that. But, a new town, that is always good for a fresh start! And you don't have to worry about running into him.

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yeah, i really had no idea how bad it was until, well, i could breathe, being free has been wonderful so far. I got better clothes, im eating better, i feel better. I have some problems i need someone to help me threw, but thats ok. we all get those from these type of realshinships. I had no idea i had changed everything for him until it was like, wow, i can do what i want when i want and no one cares!!! lol Happy it's awesome. I have really bad days some days but most of the time i'm good, seeing as i can breathe out here.

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Hi Jasmin!I probably joined after you "dissapiered" but Im glad your back!The fact that he didnt let you craft...how can someone be so mean?!
Its the best thing that could happen to you is that you left him.Now your alone,no one will tell you what to do and how much to cook and clean.And you can go back to crafting! Happy
And Im sure you will find someone much better for you,who will appriciate and love you more!Happy
So welcome back and I wish the best for you!
Happy

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i probably joined after you "dissapeared", too but welcome back !
i'm glad you got away from that guy, he sounds kinda scary. and idiotic. why would you keep someone from crafting and everything...
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yeah, i've been gone on and off for the better part of a year or two now. SOOO i'm not surpised most of you dont know who i am. But im glad to, on with craftiness

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Hi, I've visited your profile once or twice Jasmin but I don't think I've acutally spoken to you yet. Hi!! I joined last June - I think. I'm sorry to hear you having to go through such an ordeal, it's nice to hear that you have come mostly though the other side stronger. Obviously there are good days and bad days, on a bad day just remember ta bad day you had when you were with him, it must have been worse then the bad day you are feeling being on your own. Be a woman again and go strut your stuff!!!

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Not to sound rude or anything, but where do you gals keep finding these guys? Happy

I mean, I've never met a single person that would have been such an obsessive control freak over their better half. I honestly doubt it's just a cultural difference. Maybe I just hang in the wrong crowd...

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i really have no idea, i know lots of people who are great but....


well, i can give you a phsyic answer - women want to help "fix" men who seem sick/depressed which never actually works but for some reason we are drawn to the bad boys/kicked puppy pretenders. we want to make them better

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I can't seem to find nice guys interested in me, I always find obsesssive or weird guys that become attracted to me, which totally puts me off, I've been single for ages!!

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