Does any one have advice on guys?

Ok basically I NEED help.....You see I like this guy named Billy...and i mean i REALLY like him....I think he feels the same...but then again i don't....my friend danny said that billy said "maybe" when danny asked him if he likes me......and my friend Bre is trying to set us, me and billy, up together....but frankly i just want Billy to like me....i want to take it slow, get to know each other....i don't want billy to be pressured into liking me or something.....u know what i mean?........

What do you guys think?....What should i do?....Do you think I'm right to try to get to know Billy, and take it slow?.....WHAT SHOULD I DO?.....

And how do you know when, and if, a guy likes you?.....Anyone got advice?

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11 replies since 17th September 2011 • Last reply 17th September 2011

My advice is, just talk to him yourself, not through your friends,you said you don't want him to feel pressured well being set up or asked by your freinds could be doing that. Just ask if he wants to hang out with you sometime, go to a movie or something,if he likes you he'll say yes.

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defo movie: untimate bonding without having to say anything, then afterwards you can both talk about the movie
be happy, smile, be polite, dont have food in your teeth

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Reidergirl is totally right.
You should definitely talk to him yourself, people appreciate honesty and like when you respect and trust them enough to talk to them face to face about serious things, such as this. And when Billy was asked if he liked you the answer could have been yes but he said maybe because he felt put on the spot and uncomfortable. Just work on being friends for now. Nikki H's suggestion of a movie is a great idea, or maybe just invite him out for bowling with your friends as a group activity.
Just don't feel pressured to go faster than you want and tell your friends so. If you ask them to back off a bit I'm sure they will. :3

And there's no definite way to tell if a boy likes you. People are all different so there's no neon lights pointing to a certain direction (and the few who do have those neon lights are a courageous bunch), but I've found that if you open yourself up to them, they'll definitely let you know and open up as well. :3

Best of luck!

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ok thanks this is all great advice......I'll definately use this advice on the next guy I like......I don't really like billy anymore, except as a friend

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That was quick! Happy

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That was quick! Happy

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Er, best advice, wait until you like someone longer then a few weeks to start asking them out :/

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Ah, the roller coaster that is young love...

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I think you should like a guy as a friend first before seeing if you LIKE him. Cause in the long term. You have to like your husband not just LIKE(love) him to live with him LOL. My hubby is the person who is closest to me in the world. Honestly I can love a lot of people but not like them. To me, Love is a choice. Like is an action...Yeah I got it backwards than was Media and most everyone in the world says, but I've got an Amazing, and healthy relationship with my husband, we actually have a lot of people tell us they wish there relationships were so good. Yeah we have issues like everyone else, we bicker some, I nag, he ignores my nagging, but we solve every issue that comes are way, are still madly in love, and I like him as a friend as well, so I've got to have something right Happy

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Aww Cassie that's nice. It gives a girl like me some hope of someday finding a nice guy to love.

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=) Just make sure you like him as a person before you marry and you should be good Happy. For instantise, how long have you been friends with some of your best friends? Do they upset you sometimes? Do you argue/fight? Disagree on some things? I'm sure you thought yes to all of those cause it's all human, yet your still friends right? That's because you like her as a person, and you like her influence in your life. Keep those specs for a man and you'll find a good one. I've seen to many divorces because of an argument or a disagreement on something, and instead of fighting for the relationship like you would do with a friend, you just split. It's awful. I hope someday to do Engagement counseling, just by my experiences and personal knowledge on marriage.

Haha can you tell I'm passionate on the subject? And Opinionated XD

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