first kiss?

145 replies since 23rd December 2009 • Last reply 23rd December 2009

ugh i am so bored at school now...
D. has been totally normal to me since that friday. today i asked him something, he was sitting behind me that class, about the exercise we had to make. and he answered totally normally. and he hasn't bugged me at all.
now i'm confused.

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Wow after reading these stories I decided I'll tell my own.

So we had been dating for about a month by that point. He was waiting for me after class like he always does. I had to admit I was really nervous but at the same time I wanted to kiss him so badly. So he was walking me to the bus and he went to hug me goodbye and that's when I kissed him. He later on called me and was extremely happy. He told me that made his crappy day better and he was happy at his job. I admitted it was my first time and he said "Really? That was really good."

I'll admit it was nice and I was glad because you hear all of these horror stories about how much someone regrets the first kiss and it makes you even more nervous.

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I'm 15 and have not had my first kiss either. Its not uncommon and there is no fixed age limit. you shouldnt rush into it becuase heck its something that often happens unplanned and its often a clumsy and laughable process.

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Well, my first REAL kiss happened in a bowling alley when I was 15 or 16. The guy was way hott, with a tongue ring, lol! Also, he was 19. He only wanted to get into my pants, though, so whatever. :-P

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Ugh. I was 13, but the first time I actually enjoyed a kiss was when I was 22. Everyone before that was just blah.
And for those who are worried about not being asked out by anyone I wouldnt worry about that either. I never went on my first date when I was 21. Times are weird now. Lots of younger men do not do the proper thing, and ask the girl on a date first. I hate it.

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don't worry about it. I'm 15 and never been kissed. My sister (age 10) called me a "failure at life" for not having my first kiss yet, but I'm just waiting for the right guy. Don't rush it, either. Happy)

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I remember when I was hadn't had my first kiss (I was about 15 almost 16) and my sis and her friend were talking (both had already had their first kiss and a lot more to follow) and they asked me when I was going to get my first kiss. My response was "When I find a guy I acctually want to kiss." (trust me when I say I could have gotten my first kiss a long time ago) So yes it may have taken a while but I'm so glad I did wait. It wasn't a very long one but it was amazing. I'm just glad he knew what he was doing cause I had no idea. I just kind of went with the flow. *laughs*
But to everyone who hasn't been kissed yet don't worry about it. It's better to wait then to kiss some random guy for the sake of being able to say "I got my first kiss." Most of my friends say their first one was horrible and try not to talk about it.

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I am 14. And no, I haven't had my first kiss yet. Ah well... But a guy asked me if I would mind if he kissed me. I guess it was really quite courteous of him, actually, to ask first. Well... I guess he wasn't really asking and didn't expect to be turned down. He must have thought I was a complete idiot, because I just got really super dizzy and almost blacked out. I mean, I didn't think that getting asked would be such a big deal. But then I stood there for what must have been ten minutes (ok, probably less) and said something like: "Wow. Umm... No one has ever asked that before" and he said "really?", obviously starting to get uncomfortable and regretting he ever asked. I commenced with "uh, no, they haven't. Umm... uhh... *lots of silence* no," "wait- no you wouldn't mind or-" "no, I mean like no, you can't". Let me fill you in. I had met him because he was a family friend's grandson. He played trumpet, like me. He wanted to hear me play. I played a scale (with braces without my mouthguard that I was used to) and he said "woah, you're really good". What an idiot. The next day we went back and there was this other guy that I actually really, REALLY liked there. The guy came out when my mom and I walked up to the house. It was dark, and he asked which one was me. I started to go inside, but he asked me to come with him. And he went to the side of the house and asked me. The worst part was that when we went inside he started talking to the guy that I really liked, and they left! But really, I mean, what an idiot! I guess he was sort of cute, but I mean REALLY? Did he actually expect me to say yes? Ah well. I will never understand the opposite sex.

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I agree with Courtney on the first page!!!

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and WOW suzy!! you write SoooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOO much!!!

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I had my first kiss at the very end of last year. My boyfriend and I met on an internet forum two years ago and unfortunately live on opposite sides of the world (him in England, me in Australia). But we felt we were each worth it and stuck it out, and he saved up for almost a year to come see me. So there I was, 17 years old (well I'm still 17 =P) and waiting at the airport to meet someone who loved me enough to travel all the way from England to see. Well, I was nervous as hell but the first moment I saw him there, coming out of customs, he stuck his tongue out at me and all my fear and anxiety was gone. I just ran at him and jumped in his arms Happy
Well I got a bit off topic, but the next day he was at my house and I was making waffles for breakfast. Sat down next to him while I was waiting for them to cook, and he was running his hand over my shoulders and neck, then pulled my face gently towards his. Then he kissed me, and since I had no idea what I was doing I pulled away after a few seconds and ran away to check the waffles. I put my finger to my lips because I could still feel the trace of his lips on mine, and he must have been watching me because he laughed at me! All in all, it was an incredibly sweet moment I will treasure forever.
He had to go back to England of course, but we're still together. I'm planning on visiting him at the end of the year and he plans on moving down here next year.
To anyone worried about not having been kissed yet, it is so much better to wait for the right guy, no matter what age you are. You'll have such a better chance of making it a memorable first kiss ^_^

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My first kiss was when I was in 8th grade with my 4th boyfriend. I didn't even want to be kissed! We had only been going out for 3 days. x.x There was no spark, no love, and very painful. It was at a school dance and i was sitting on the floor because I was tired. He wanted to go dance, but he ran back to kiss me. My head make contact with the wall resulting in a big knot -_____-

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sporkyllama that's true I waited 16 years for the right guy. It is something I don't ever want to forget

Kiko at least he asked rather then just trying to kiss you.

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im 15 as well ...going on 16 soon, and i've never kissed a boy

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My first kiss was when i was 14 during my freshman year =D it was my first kiss and also my first love and iv never regret that ^w^

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