first kiss?

how old were you when you had yours?? i'm 15 and still havent kissed anyone, i'm starting to worry a bit-- what should i do?

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145 replies since 23rd December 2009 • Last reply 23rd December 2009

You shoudnt worry abouth it,I was 15 when I kissed the first time.You just waith for the right guy,dont rush...

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I was 12 and it was terrible. LOL So don't worry like Violetta said. These things are best not rushed. Especially these days when kids and teens feel they need to grow up so fast...

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i was 15 and as much as people might like to talk up "your very first kiss" they kinda suck because you don't know what you are doing. fireworks don't go off or anything! don't worry because if you wait to kiss someone you really like, compared to some random dude just because you want to get it over with, it doesn't matter if your first kiss is awkward or not, because they will really like you too Happy
the best kiss is kissing the one you love after you haven't seen them in forever Happy i get the best kisses when my husband comes home from deployment or a long trip!

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I wouldn't worry about not kissing anyone at 15. I was 16 when I had my first kiss.

My first kiss (or kisses) were amongst 2 of my friends (1 guy and 1 girl) it was the guys birthday and the 3 of us were all dared to kiss eachother. I was moree than happy to because I was sick of not being kissed. My intentions behind it were wrong, I wouldn't just kiss ANYONE for the sake of it, but for me it was probably the best way because I didn't become emotionally attached to these people, it was all friendly and amicable. However, if that situation hadn't have arised I would have waited till - what would have been - my first kiss (not with friends) which was when I was about 18!!

Don't feel pressured, I know how you feel, I'm still a virgin and feel pressured about it, but there is no rush you are still young and you have standards!!

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My first kiss was when i was 13 or 14 and it was TERRIBLE!! It was sometime close to my birthday, and I was still shy and really didn't want to kiss anyone because I didn't know what I was doing! But I was dating this guy and was staying at a friends house. Well a bunch of us got together over there, and they invited him and FORCED me to kiss him. Literally, I was on the couch, and these girls pinned me down so that he could kiss me. I was so humiliated! And then there was this other guy I met one summer, who, when I went to give him a peck goodbye, he shoved his tongue down my throat and was like licking my face. PLUS - I swear he must've downed a mini bottle of listerine, because that's what it tasted like!! My friend thought it was hilarious, but i was disgusted! So seriously, don't rush it. LoL

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Eeeewww Gypsie Moon you got (what me and my mates call) a Colgate kiss, where someone has like JUST brushed their teeth and it is a distustingly minty kiss... bleugh!!
Also how annoying about being FORCED to kiss the first guy... I can see on so many levels why that is embarassing!!

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gosh guys don't laugh, I was 18. and I was walking with my new boyfriend of one day, ok I knew him for two weeks and he asked me out, but we didn't kiss untill our third date, and thats when he became my bf. He surprised me cause we were holding hands and walking through downtown ottawa by the parliment building and he walked us right by a light pole and instead of letting my hand go, he turned me around and kissed me. My first kiss was actually very nice.

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My first kiss was when I was 15 and it was awful. He was 17 and I didn't fancy him at all but just went out with him cos my friend set it up and I was really shy I thought I'd never go out with anyone. He was kind of stubbly and like Gypsy's experience, he tried to stick his tongue down my throat so I had to pull away quickly. I thought it was gross and it really freaked me out for ages and I got called fridged by loads of people at school. It was not a pleasant experience at all. Basically from that I can say I learnt that don't go out with someone you don't like, don't get pressured in to anything by friends (however well meaning) and when its right it happens without any real effort.
My first proper kiss (as I kind of erased this from my memory) was when I was 19 and was with someone I fancied when I was at school. We met just after I'd started uni and he was at uni in Scotland and we were both down at home for a weekend. It was the best kiss and definitely let me know that you need that chemistry for it to work.
Try not to stress about not kissing anyone. I've been with my bf for about 13 years now and kissing him is great Happy

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Like I said I was 15 and the guy was my first bf,it wasnt so bad,because he was 19 so he had experiance,but me....I was so shocked and didnt know what to do with a nother persons tongue in my mouth. Happy we where together for a year or so,the second time I knew what to do! Happy Heather is right,I love the kisses that I get from my husband when he pics me up from camp after a week.

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first kiss.. oh gosh. :/ ermm.. i was 12, well.. now i'm 14.
~snotty guy~soccer field~and no experience~
-.- it wasnt so pretty.
But my first gewd kiss was on the sea. I meet some guy. *.* Black, emo hair, black clothes, blue eyes. *.*
And he was excellent kisser. Happy ..he taught me some things. haha ..ofc, i was confused.
But.. u should found a guy that u like, has soft lips. xD and just wait for that moment to happend.
I do have friends who havent kissed yet, so dont worry! It all m'kay. ;)

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at 14.
and it was awkward and i pulled away saying "this is weird"

lovley no?
ahah dont worry Happy
it'll happen!
imean my first kiss has led me to 3 years of dating and still going strong!

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Don't rush your first kiss, it's nothing special it's just that if u are obviously desperate for a first kiss your boyfriend will think you're easy and then try to go further than just kissing. Unless thats your thing then go for it.

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Nope not yet...I'm 14, and Im not that worried. My school is super small (my grade has 40 people) so there's no guys to like, and none of the like me. To be honest, I'm not expecting to get a boyfriend till college.

Doesn't bother me. I have better things to do, and I don't need a boyfriend anyway

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wow! so many people sharing their experiences... i'm actually feeling pretty OK about it now- not that i was stressing massively anyway!- it's nice to know i'm not the only one who hasn't been kissed; thanks for sharing your stories guys Happy

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