My Idiot of a Friend (please help!!)

My friend was talking about my date with my new boyfriend to EVERYBODY at school! Everybody knows now! What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!? My friend is an idiot (even though she's my best friend)! She didn't stop until I hit her on the side of the head really hard! I don't wanna tell her about my date... But she keeps asking what happened and stuff like that. I don't wanna hurt her feelings... I'm gonna be so embarrassed. Everybody's gonna ask about it... People are gonna make fun of me and my boyfriend! If I can get through this I'd gossip less... GOSSIP HURTS! I normally gossip about everything... But I can stop! I don't wanna go to school tomorrow... There's gonna be sooooo many rumors... I hate this! but I ♥ my boyfriend... AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I said "shut your fucking mouth!" to her at lunch and I'm surprised that I didn't get in trouble! The principal was right next to me. I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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52 replies since 12th October 2008 • Last reply 12th October 2008

I am confused...what is wrong with the date with your boyfriend? Are you just worried that so many ppl will just butt in and drive you crazy? IF that is the case if they ask just tell its none of their business and ignore them. Put a smile on and walk through those halls with pride cause as long as you are happy and your boyfriend is part of that happiness then everything is good to go.

And as for you best friend, sit her to the side and have a heart to heart talk on what goes on with both hers and your lives that you share is only between you two and not the whole school. Its like best friend conventialality(i might of butchered that word) I am sure she dont want you to running around the school with a secret she shared with you.

wish you the best and I am glad you are happy with the new boyfriend Happy

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There's nothing wrong with my date! Its just that I didn't want everybody to know about it! People are gonna make fun of me! I repeat, They will make fun of me!!!! And my popularity still hasn't fully recovered from my last incident! OMG WHAT AM I GONNA DO??!?!?!?!?!?!?

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quickly STOP...DROP...AND ROLL!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! **begins flailing arms in the air**

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Firstly, calm down and take a deep breath.

Secondly, in a few week's time people will move on to someone else to talk about, so just go with it and chill out a bit eh?

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I agree with Lola, just think if you guys had fun on your date, then who cares

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Wait, why will they make fun of you? Are you ashamed of your boyfriend?

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I've had worst things spread about me, be thankful you even had a date. It's the way school is, it's the way people are and even though it's fuckin horrible you just have to stick it out, keep your chin up and be yourself, like lola said it will all calm down in a few weeks.

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If you really care about yourself...keep your chin up, it shouldn't matter what everyone else thinks. Be confident..all that matters is you! As for the boyfriend issue, if they are making fun of you, chances are it is because of jealousy. If you care about him, then he's totally worth being made fun of.

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Or you could grow up and wait for a real relationship to come along? None of the problems you mentioned above will be prevalent because none exist in the real world.

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OMG people won't leave me alone!!!! I walked into school today and was bombarded with questions about my date, why I like my boyfriend, and if I've kissed him! Its none of their business! How do I get them to stop annoying me?? My boyfriend is considered a "nerd" even though there's nothing nerdy about him!!! People are cruel!!! I'm going crazy! I don't wanna deal with this for even one more day!!! You all keep saying to ignore them and hold my chin up high!!! I can't do that!!!! There has to be something else I can do!!! I hate this!!! *falls on the floor crying* I am actually crying right now!!! HELP ME!!! I'm crying my make up off!!! I'm only 12 years old... DO ANY OF YOU REMEMBER WHAT THIS IS LIKE?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? I can't be like that! I need somebody who doesn't think my boyfriend's a nerd!!!

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I don't get it... why would they make fun of you? You have a BOYFRIEND... most people make fun of those who DON'T have boyfriends.


oh wait... I just read the "12 years old" part...


WELL FIRST OFF, nerds are AMAZING. I LOVE NERDS. Nerds are the guys who care about you, who are fun and geeky and genuinely care about others. Nerds are the guys who are actually smart and don't care about beating up every guy that stares at you. Nerds are the ones who trust you and respect you and want to make you happy.

So IF ANYTHING, revel in the fact that your boyfriend may be a nerd. NERD IS GOOD, NERD IS GREAT! I'd LOVE to have a nerdy boyfriend [my past two were nerds, and my god I loved them!]

NERD IS NOT BAD! lol.

Again.... who cares? Why should you care about what everyone is saying about you and your boyfriend? If you and your boyfriend are happy, why do you care about all the other people? Its just the two of you, be happy with that.

And really... just calm down. Take a chill pill, this isn't going to ruin your life, no matter how much it seems like it.

I can barely even remember my first boyfriend, and I'm sure you will have PLENTY to come, so just be happy with what you have now.


Oh, and an amazing thing you can say to those that will really annoy them, if they say stuff like "your boyfriends a nerd" or "you guys are gross" or whatever, just say "yea... so what?"

because honestly... so what?

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you know what, I'm a geek. and I love it, My bf is a gamer nerd, I'm an art greek and together we make awsomeness. Be proud of the geekyness, imbrace the nerdyness

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I dread to think what will happen if you have a serious problem.

Simple thing is, if you're bothered by what other people think about this guy, you obviously don't care about him nearly enough, so you end it. I went out with a nerdy kid when I was twelve but I thought it was awesome and we were nerds together. Yes we got bullied but we had each other. God, I'd give anything to go back to the days when it was so simple that my biggest issues were whether Dark Magic chocolates were too sophisticated or should I just buy Celebrations.

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I'm sorry but I honestly can't say I know what it's like for you to be dating someone at TWELVE YEARS OF AGE. Jeebus! I was still playing with toys at that age, not boys.

*mumbles something about kids these days, grabs walking stick*

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