ok...i need help

a lot of help. so i like this guy, and i think he likes me. so....how do i flirt with him to let him know im interested? hes really shy, and i dont think he knows much about girls. im pretty sure i would be his first girlfriend. im not sure how to go about this whole girlfriend thing anyways...so i just need help with this.

does anyone have any tips on how to flirt?


i dont know how to flirt. theres something wrong with me :\

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11 replies since 1st November 2008 • Last reply 1st November 2008

just be yourself. Talk to him, eat lunch with him, ask him if he would like to do something....I am a forward kinda girl. If I like someone I just go for it. Its how I got my fiancee. I asked him out

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yeah...i mean, im already friends with him, but maybe i should spend a little more time with him.

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yeah, like hand out alone with him
go to a movie.

Give him a hug or give him a cookie

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eye contact!!! look, smile, look, look away!!! but don't leave it too long...I hate it when you see someone ache over someone and not ask them out, or play mind games and then nothing good comes out of it but I doubt you're that type. And yeh be yourself.

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Honestly, flirting comes naturally- you won't be able to help yourself. It's not a concious thing, and if it is concious.. then you've read too many girls magazines!

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thanks you guys

im thinking of asking him to a movie next weekend since im spending tomorrow with my dad...

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thanks you guys

im thinking of asking him to a movie next weekend since im spending tomorrow with my dad...

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thats a good idea!

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Roma - it's horrible when you can't help it and one of their mates is noticing too and when you get to that age when if you make eye contact with anyone they think you're flirting!

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i dont like that, eye contact is good. for the longest time everyone thought i had a crush on this one guy because i was really good friends with him

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yeh that's a typical high school thing, i had this friend - who was the only one out of a good group of friends that I finally made in the last year of school that was in most of my classes - and he sat on the table infront of me and I sat with some girls who were alright but because he made me laugh they were like 'do you like him?', yet they had friends who were male! still a little bit bitter about school lol I can laugh at it more now though, you said you found the girls who stared at you in some shop funny, thats a good attitude to have I wish I'd had it at a younger age!

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