Bi-Curious???????

wassup people, ok i had to bring this issue up because i had a weird dream and from the title you can tell its about me and a girl ..you knw. Ive like guys mt intire life the issue never hit me until now. sooo is it just a dream or something more? is there somthing wrong with me? [religeous members i do not mean to offend anyone i just brought the topic up for discussion soo i would appreciate it if only positive and helpfull feedback is put here]

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19 replies since 5th August 2009 • Last reply 5th August 2009

Nothing is wrong with you, I occupationally have the same dreams too once in a blue moon as well as my 90 percent of my other dreams are of me against zombies. My husband on the other hand gets a kick out of it when I try to explain my dreams to him. I just dont remember exactly what it translates thu.

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yea i know, these some dream book thingy somewhere my daddy had one. i dont even knw if he still has it ugggh!

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dreaming about it doesn't mean anything much. I am bi sexual, if you were bi sexual you would know

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i agree with michelle your just dealing with curiosity i have some dreams like that but i know i'm straight i kissed a girl and felt nothing(my new song) but yeah its all cool

ps sug totally have zombie dreams i just bought a book you might love called pride and prejuidice and zombies AMAZING classic liteature meets a plague of zombies

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ooh I want to read that book

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Michelle how did youk nw you were Bi?

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well I was always attacted to women and men, I guess I noticed it more when I was in my teens.

but its something you just know, are you attracted only in your dreams...do you look at women the way u look a men?

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and did you know that female have the ability to be fluid with their sexuality

http://www.healthhype.com/female-sexuality-is-relatively-fluid.html

http://citizenchris.typepad.com/citizenchris/2007/12/fluid-sexuality.html

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/04/23/o.women.leave.menfor.women/

http://www.statemaster.com/encyclopedia/Fluid-sexuality

http://fluidsexuality.wordpress.com/about/

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Theres nothing wrong about being bi or gay. I am.
Its more socially acceptable now than ever before.
And during your teenage years, you're more likely to seriously question your orientation.
Whatever you decide, its alright as long as you're comfortable =]

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yes, i always caught myself starring at women the same way i look at men..wanting to touch them. idk why

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well read the articles above, and see if they help you out

or these

http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Think-I-Am-Bisexual/32828

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thanks Michelle

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your welcom

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One thing that makes me wonder is that need to categorize onesself. Gay, Straight, Bi..
I mean, nobody can control whom he/she feels attracted to. So why not just wait and see? Once you're in love (or just ... hot, ahem), may it be a he, a she or something in between, there's not much you can do about it anyway.
Plus, some people think of themselves as straight for half of their lives and then fall in love with someone of the same sex. Or the other way round.
Personally, I never felt that need to define my sexuality by any of those words, but I'd really like to understand why others do.
I see that being gay, bi etc can be an enormous problem in terms of social acceptance (sad and wrong, but reality..) and that some people therefor fear to be "like that" (even more sad and wrong), still I wonder if that's related to that category-thinking or if the reasons for it are somewhere else..
What do you think?

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