Bisexual

well so I had this disscussion with my mom
and she said she wouldn't like to have a bisexual partner becouse they fall in love with allot of people.
I think this is stupid cuz straight men can fall in love with allot of women too?And gay people too right??
It makes no sence and it made me mad.

I hate it when people think that way.

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16 replies since 23rd February 2009 • Last reply 23rd February 2009

You're a very open minded person who thinks everyone is equal obviously, so well done you Happy

She probably just doesn't understand, loads of people are usually about this and similar things.

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Yeah, just because someone's bisexual doesn't mean they'll be attracted to everyone. Some people get attracted to loads of people and some people are hardly attracted to any, it just depends on them as a person and doesn't have anything to do with their sexuality really.

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Yeah, this is a thing which really bothers me too, but it's usually just down to not thinking through what you're saying. I think the line of thought is that there's a significantly higher percentage of people you can sleep with, but if you're thinking that your partner will cheat on you just because of that, then you obviously don't trust them to begin with. Besides, just because someone's not openly bisexual doesn't mean that they wouldn't have a homosexual bit on the side - Tim's perfectly straight, but I know it's not impossible for him to sleep with a guy, if he found the right one.

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You know I understand homosexual and bi, but if you are saying someone is straight and would willingly sleep with a guy, doesn't that make him bisexual? If he is open to both?
Bisexual being a person who can fall for both a man or a woman.

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ok that bothers me, people saying theat bisexuals fall in love with like EVERYONE
um, no
FAIL

straight people can fall in love with more people than a bisexual/gay person, and vice versa

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its true, I'm bisexual, and I never felt that way...I mean I like both sexes...but its not like I go with both. When I am with a guy, I'm with a guy, vise versa

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That's like saying if someone likes the color blue everything they own will be blue... for some thats true but for most its not

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there was this couple on This Morning, this morning lol, and when they married one was a man and one was a woman and then the man decided it was time to have a sex change after years and years of knowing something wasn't right. But they're still together because the wife said she's in love with the person but had never really been gay before, she just loves the person.

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AND THATS BEAUTIFUL ooops sorry, my caps lock was on

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yeah exactly
love is love people! it doesnt matter what gender you are!

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Well Tim just says that he's never been attracted to men, but if he suddenly was attracted to another man, he wouldn't go "No, but I'm straight, I can't go for it!", he just would because you feel what you feel and it just happens. I define myself as bisexual because I can tell people a list of men and women I'm attracted to and have had sexual relationships with both.

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thats right you feel what you feel

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A while back I feel for a girl and never had considered myself to be bisexual before it. I think it was because I met the right person for the time, and no matter who it was (male/female) I felt a connection with them. I haven't been with a female since, simply because I'm in a long term relationship, so I wouldn't go out there and say I am bisexual or not. It just depends on the person.

But I don't think that because youre bisexual you would fall in love with a lot of people.... Just because you're intrested in guys and girls it doesn't mean you have a bigger variety or something. I've known plenty of straight and gay people who have fallen in love with many many people.

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thats right

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