boy troubles....

if you had to label me in my class... I would probalbly be in the whole "obbsessed with celebritys that she knows she could never get but scratches people with her nails if THEY DARE INSULT THEM!"

anyway theres a boy in my class whos popular i guess. everyone likes him, he has awesome hair.he is great at sports ect

I dont get him.

i have realy realy long thick hair normaly in a ponytail so when i have to sit near him in english he will compliment me by saying i look like a proper babe and stuff like that

he will ask me questions , talk to me and he is the sweettest manily because he is probaly unique.

because the other boys in my class will insult people that are diffrent but he will say straight afterwards " hey! thats unfair" (kawiiiiiii)

he has exactly the same views on stuff as me

i dont know what to do. i cant talk to him like a normal person cuz i have no self confidence

help!!!!!!

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6 replies since 6th July 2011 • Last reply 6th July 2011

Reply #1:

He's all ready talking to you so clearly if you talk to him he'll talk back, so no worries there. That said, I wouldn't go up to to him when he's with his group of friends until you get to know him better. Peer pressure with the group may cause him to not be as polite as if you were in class.

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Reply #2:

Try helping your confidence by doing some confidence building exercises.

There are some good ones here : http://www.razvandobre.com/confidence-building-exercises/


If you good Confidence exercises there are a lot more out there Happy

I used to compliment myself in my mirror, and put boosting quotes all over the place, surrounding yourself with positive things helps.

Also take some time to pamper yourself could help to

Happy

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OH P.S I've a really good friend of mine who is the same way about celebs she likes <3

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thanks!

its good to know there are people that understand
Im trying the confidence exercies right now!!!!!!

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Reply #5:

thanks!

its good to know there are people that understand
Im trying the confidence exercies right now!!!!!!

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Reply #6:

I have an old fortune cookie paper taped to my computer... It says "The best angle from which to approach any problem is the TRYangle." Cheesy, yes very, but think about it.

If you like him, talk to him.

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