My boyfriend's brother! (very personal)

It's quite far to Tim's place in Bristol! One half hour bus ride, then a fourty minute walk. His Bath place is much farther.

Does your fella live far away, Roma?

I used to go out with this guy who lived in Liverpool, it cost a lot to see him!

Yeah, my beau's in manchester. Hopefully I'll be going up there for uni next year.

I had a Bath idea for you! You could cycle there using the bristol/bath cyclepath! Very romantic.

20 minutes by car an hour away by 2 buses....ooo I'll come visit you Roma!

Yeah, arrive there all sweaty and gross =P but yeah, maybe I will.

Kitten, i know you feelings. I have a very simaliar issue (my boyfriends stepbrother, who is also 24 and has the same maturity issues, its a tool, and completely dumb!) we live with him, and he complains all the time about me and my boyfriend having sex (i am noisie, but i blame it on my boyfriend, i wouldnt be loud if he wasnt good ;) ) but he gets nothing, at all (mostly cause he looks like he's 12 i think, though hes 24) but he even goes so far as to knock very hard on our bedroom door and tell us to shut the hell up, just cause we (i quote) "are needy pethdic beasts that have to share with the world that you're having sex" (atleast we're getting some) if its ever you and your boyfriend alone with out the mom around be REALLY loud, even if you're not really having sex, do it often. Its fun. ^^

Haha I was hoping you might be around, I remember you complaining about your boyfriend's brother too! Although not in that respect before =P

Jem does the exact same thing - punches the wall and yells at us to shut up.

But yeah, it really does make you just wanna be extra loud to spite them, doesn't it?

OH it's fun!!! My problem boyfriends brother, leaves really fast as we start, and both of us fall over in laughter we he leaves, It lightens the mood muchly. And, after we started doing that he left us the hell alone. in the case inways. ^^ And, even though sex is embrassing, if you want to piss him off next time he makes a crude but "poliet" thing, just smile and replie as poliet (with that slight sent of the wonderful thing sarcasim!) "We'll, next time it's just you and you're hand could you please keep it down." that one works wonders

Haha eurgh, the thought of Jem masturbating does make me feel ill!

Jem sometimes does that, if it's the middle of the days and he's in his room and we decide to go up to Tim's room, Jem storms off downstairs again. Oh or Tim suggested we just have sex on "Jem's chair" (he gets really annoyed if people sit on it haha)

lmao that would be priceless!! Hmm, maybe i should do that with my problem. Lol. Well, atleast it doesnt matter what country you're in, you always have a chance with problem brothers! but my mom says its not normal for lovers to get long with everyone in the other's family. there has to be atleast one person you hate.

I love loud sex. Beau said to me earlier that when I next go up to see him, the first night his flatmate won't be in... so we can be as loud as we like. The louder you scream the better it feels.

How true!

We're going away next week but it's only a little B&B so I'll be scared to make too much noise then in case we get chucked out haha.

Well I get on really well with Tim's mum, I used to be -okay- with Jem, and I don't really know his dad but apparently he's alright (although he's cheated on Kathy a lot, so I kinda dislike him by default)

ya. I like the majority of my boyfriends family. I've always hated the brothers (there is two stepbrothers, one i''ve never met, explained in a moment) and i hate his dad. His dad walked out on him when he was 5 and only visisted him when he HAD to, and pretty much ignored him and payed attention to the stepbrother instead. (One year, my boyfriend only got a card, while the stepbrother got like a walkman (big at that time) a new stero and a new bed and some collector cards and other stuff for christmas)

Mm, my fella's brother got all the attention growing up and got loads of stuff. This year, his dad got him a diabolo - Tim has never expressed ANY interest in a diabolo. It was just silly.

But for a very long time I really loved going over there. You can smoke and drink and stuff over there, and I've been allowed to stay over since the beginning of the relationship, and his mum gets me veggie meals which is -so- lovely, but now because this whole thing has kicked off I don't like going over

Poor Kit, that really must be a wear on you and and your fella. Well maybe you should have fun and go over than, ignore him completely (yes, i know easier said than done, but you'll get the hang out it ;) I think your boy's brother might be trying to break you two up, as a whoot for himself. for whatever reason, so in a way avoiding that place is letting him win. do not let the maggot win!!!

I realize this is probably in no way helpful, but I am SO GLAD I don't have to deal with people like your guys's boyfriends brothers. Though I havn't actually beat anyone up since 7th grade, stories have lived on, and that "bad-ass reputation" precedes me TO PEOPLE I DON'T EVEN KNOW! I met this guy at a sub shop and he knew my 7th grade story! So people are usually, not afraid of me, but they know that if they want to try and hurt me, I will hurt them so much worse [or thats what they think. I USED to be like that, but now I'd probably just take it and not care, lol. But still, them thinking that just makes it easier for me]. and though I don't believe in violence that much anymore [I'm not THAT strict of a pacifict] I would beat the CRAP out of gem and jasmin's boyfriend's brother! lol. So have you tried physical violence? lol. I'm such a bad hippie