Awkward Rant (Men stay away!)
OK, first of which is the only reason why I'm posting this here is because i know my family isn't likely to read it and i really just need a nice long rant about something I'm sure I'm the only girl who has to deal with it.
Ok I'm a really tiny girl weight wise, well almost. For some stupid reason God decided to curse me with abnormally large boobs. Now, it wasn't so bad a few years ago having larger than most and still being tiny, but they haven't stopped growing. I'm a 32F now and they are still getting bigger! But it's getting to the point all i have is pain from them, from them pulling on my neck muscles or if i run to fast, go down the stairs to fast, ride a horse, bounce up and down, move suddenly they pull on the skin and have to stop. I can't even laugh really hard with out them hurting! But it's getting to the point now i can't sleep because of them. I can't get comfortable, laying on my sides the pull at the skin on my side, on my back i can't breathe because they're pushing down sooo hard, and on my stomach i can't breathe either, and if i have my arms to close to my body they're unhappy, to far and my joint are unhappy. And the worst is i can't even afford a bra i can sleep in or something to try and take the weight off a little bit, bra's for my size range from $100 - $10000 and i hardly have the money most of the time! I mean it's great and all if you one of those women who got my size from the doctors, because you can already afford to have that kind of boobs if your purposefully making them, and those kind hold them selves up (silicone has no weight compared to real fat... grrr). But i would sooo kill for like C size boobs right now, hell even DD would be better, at least i could sleep! And i can't get a boob reduction, till I've had kids, i hit menopause, or i get rid of my stuff as if i get pregnant it would ruin the whole reason for getting them in the first place and possible rip the boobs if it's shortly after my operation (owie!) And unless my doctor says i can have it, i can't afford on anyways i need my medical to pay for it. Arg! I want to be flat chested
I WANT BIG BOOBS!!!!! I'll trade I'm practically still in training bras
Jasmin, sorry you have to go through all that pain. I don't know how the US works, but if your doctor said it was medically necessary could you get it done for nothing? I know in the UK and Ireland, the health care pays for stuff like that, but I have a feeling you would need insurance in the UK right?
you have to pay in the US and Canada right? A friend of a friend had a reduction and no one said 'you can't have it done untill after you have children'. There was a programme about women with really big boobs and most of them decided against surgery, but they're obviously causing you too much pain to carry on with them that size. Surely they'd just take fat out and sew them up? Aaaw my boobs are all like tense at the thought of the uncomfortableness and pain you must be going through!
My family has a history of getting abnormally large boobs when you get pregnant, like gain 2 cup sizes. So my doctor, for the safety of my body, said its better to wait. And I don't have to pay, but I need a doctors approval before I can get it for nothing.
Never finsihed the last part because My boyfriend needed to the computer to check something out.
Also, as me and my boyfriend have fun in the bedroom (blushes) my doctor doesn't want to risk it, because me and him are very serious (like just waiting for the right time to get married, its not longer an If question, its a When question)
since we're on that topic now lol I'm going crazy here we don't get as much time together completely alone as we used to! It's the same with us even though I'll probably have to be the one who says 'ok lets get married soon then' rather then him going down on one knee and all but thats a couple of years ahead.
Anyway looks like you'll have to just wear properly fitted bras till you can get the surgery. Mine are small yet a B cup doesnt fit over them properly and I can tell because the edge of the cups dont rest upon my body, a bigger bra wouldn't fit in other places i don't think though.
Jasmin, if it helps my work sells bras up to H cup for only like £12 (so what, $8 or something?) so I can supply you with those if they're that expensive over there.
Other than that, I don't know what I can reccomend cause that's really rubbish =(
Oh rubbish. I just realised that we only start at 38 band, which will be way too big for you
oh wow ive heard of that happening....but ill trade!! i still havent even had my period.....GRRR
why do they assume people with big boobs have wide backs and people with small boobs have tiny backs! It's the same with pants! Just because I'm im not so wide across my hips and waist does not mean my legs are small also!
Aw, sweetie, I feel bad for you! Mine are a DD and they give me issues, so I can't imagine how uncomfortable you must be.
Also, Knittin' Kitten, I bet if you sent her the bras, she could cut the cups off of them, then take a cheapie bra that has the right number size, cut everything off of that, then sew the cups to the straps and whatnot. It would be Frankenbra! Not entirely pretty, but entirely functional.
aah haha frankenbra!
I just had a brainwave! Aren't sports bras supposed to give amazing support, dunno if they'd do them to your size though
The bras in my place are nice as well and start from a B cup, but yeah I'm like 32 round and Jasmin is probably a lot thinner by the sounds of it.
I'd LOVE a Frankenbra!
I've heard of loads of websites that do big sized bras, but I dunno if they have them in America
The bras where you live start at a B cup? Well I'm glad I don't live there I would have to shop in the little girls training bra section for the rest of my life. and I'm guessing I would still have to take in the seems for my poor little girls
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