Leaving the past behind to start anew

Well the next few months will be a bit bumpy for me and my girls, but I know we will be fine. I been keeping things under wraps till things were talked and figured.

You all might see less of me for now. Myself and my husband has decided to call it a quits, but before you all gasp with horror let me tell you no apologizes needed. A selected few know of my issues with that part of my life, I am not much on throwing juicy details or be a cold hearted fish either. So let me let you all know now that this is a good thing. It took me this long to return to my happy go lucky self on the inside and show a real smile. I am excited to keep it that way and feel better about myself. For the longest time I thought I was worthless and ugly, but I now feel beautiful from the inside out!

So in the mean time, lawyer time and hunting for storage units and preparing myself and my girls to move back home to my parents. Me and the husband had sat down and agreed on terms and this is a good thing since my first divorce was ten times worse, so I appreciate his part in keeping it on good terms.

I may ask from you all an ear to vent if needed be during my rough patches. In the mean time keep posting your awesomeness on here so I can smile on your creativeness.

For those who may need my new address-which will be at my parents-send me a pm and I will get that too you. If not I will probably give my new addy to a couple of ppl and you can contact them for it.

Thank you for understanding my upcoming absences.

Always,
Sugs

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18 replies since 13th October 2010 • Last reply 13th October 2010

Big hugs Sug x

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You go girl...
Sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do. I'm glad that you're happy. It's such a liberating feeling when you discover the source of your depression and remove that negativity from your life. Or at least limit it.

Have a happy new journey!

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Thank you!

Totally agree with you there Des, I have a long journey but It will be great in the end. I am keeping this off facebook because he has family on there and dont want to start taking things out of context. I at the moment is making my lists and going through it with a fine tooth comb.

In the end I will be victorious!

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I'm so pleased for you honey that is seems to be at least an amicable decision between you and your husband, or at least you can both deal with things on good terms.

I wish you all the best with the processes and moving back to your parents and I'm always here to lend an ear no matter what.

{big hugs}

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***Sends good vibes/happpy thoughts through computer to sugar. ***
You can do this. and if you ever feel you cant there is a ton of co&k people waiting to lend you a few ears!!

im sure everything will work out for the best.

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We will miss you, but it is all for a good cause. Good luck with EVERYTHING! You already know to let us know if you need anything, but I thought I'd remind you anyway.

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Best of luck with everything Sug Happy x

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Thank you, Thank you! I will keep you posted. Thank you for the support Happy Love you all!

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Haven't heard from you in ages, now I guess I know why. All the best for you, I wish you strength and stamina for everything that needs to be done! Happy

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I'm so happy for you Sug!And I wish you the best and good luck with everything!We are all here for you!
I will need your address later on,I have a package waiting to be sent for you. Happy (the one I was talking about,but I didn't have time to post it)

I send you happy taught and much love! Happy

*go girl*
^__^

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Good luck, though I know you'll be fine, you are strong and so are your girls.
I thought I sensed issues a while ago, it is good to leave them behind and start over, I know this from experience=)

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Sending lots of positive vibes your way to help you through this time. I'm so glad that you are making sure that you are happy, I think that is very important.

I'm also glad to hear that you were able to agree on terms with your husband, so it sounds like it won't be as messy. I divorce my ex about 8 years ago and it was a huge mess. If you even need someone to talk to, I'm here. Feel free to hit me up here, on facebook, or text me Happy

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Thank you very much Ladies! Happy It feels great to have you all in my corner, you guys can message me on fb(no posting on my wall about it) I get all my fb updates on my phone. Happy

Will keep you guys posted as much as I can, I found a storage place that has a special of second month rent free. I love great deals! Happy

Also slowly getting the girls prepare on what is going on, all they know that we are going to live grandma and grandpa and they are excited cause they love them so much....not to mention Grandpa spoils them silly! lol

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Good luck, many of us have been there and know how hard it can be.
so I send prayers your way for all of you.

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