Creepy OLDER MEN!!!

ok Girls at some point in our lives we realize that wome need to protect themselves in this world and when a man is staring at you its surely not because of your "personality" especially if hes old enough to be your dad.....or gradndad....thats the most creepiest thing in the word...[thats what mase is for! Happy lol j/k]

But seriously,im 20 years old and there are sex offenders out there lurking for unsuspecting women.

like for example, i worked in this mens suite store and by the fitting room.

Mon- Friday all the 40 something and ups are there and Sat-Sun all the oldmen come. i wasn at my post whne this man asked me WAS I MARRIED.i just gave him a look and said i was only twenty years old. then he gave me this creepy smile and asked"do you want a boyfriend?"i looked at him disgusted and told him i already had one . he was pissed cause he thought iwas lying so he was WALKING AROUND THE STORE DOING NOTHING JUST TO WALK PAST ME making smart remarks like "oh do he gat a car? is he picking you up from work too?" luckily another co worker escorted him out the store cause he was clrarly bothering me.

SOOO laides! post a time where An older man tried to make a pass at you and what did you do.

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22 replies since 20th July 2009 • Last reply 20th July 2009

ewwww, I usually tell them that I am a black belt(I am) and if they value their members to go away, or say I will call the cops.

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yeh, when i was about 17 a man kept pestering me trying to buy me a drink in a club, i said no and then he appeared again with this beer, i didnt drink it i dont think. He was 30+ and short. A friends brother used to pester any girl he was around at the time, it was annoying he wasn't that much older then us but he was older. There's an elderly man that sits in the bus stop I wait at to go to dog training on saturdays but he only sits there until my bus comes. I'm not sure if he looks at me or not but he makes me feel very uncomfortable and looks in my direction. He also spits on the ground a number of times ick. They don't seem to realise that you aren't a defenceless princess and know exactly what they're up to!

I really wanna take kick boxing classes, just for fun but self defence skills is a plus.

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self defence is a plus

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ahh retail the hunting grounds of creepy old men. it just sucks luckly a t my store (jcp) the security will call downand ask if we need help if they notice anything suspicious or if a guy is being very persistent and we keep saying no

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then i need to work ant J c penny lol

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Yes, older gentlemen making passes is definitely a no in my book.
One time a man started striking up a conversation with me about famous teenagers, clearly trying to make it seem like we "had something in common". And all the stuff he was saying was nonsense like "Jamie Lynn Spears had a threesome with a rapper..." I was majorly creeped!!

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omg yea thats a bedaphile in the making lol

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I know what you guys mean! Old Man have always been creepy then the stuff they do just creeps you out even more. When I was 12, but I looked about 16 cause I'm tall. I liked to walk home for school. Unsafe I know but the bus was worse. Well anyways this old red car kept passing by me. I thought oh super this idiots lost! Then about the fourth time around, he stops and askes if I want a ride. I was so creeped out! I told him no! and ran the last 3 blockes to my house.

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guys ride around like that all the time where i live .especially late. that happened 2 me one n u did the right thing by running.if a guys on foot . try toget into the habit of carring some mase.

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I seem to attract creepy older men.
Where I work there are loads of drunks outside and they come over to talk to me if im on a smoke break or whatever.
Im starting to lose track of all my false names. Lol.
And my place of work (CeX) means I get MORE weirdos making inappropiate remarks at me cause I 'work in a sex shop'
grr.

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There's a bike show that goes on near where I work once a year, so occasionally we get a bunch of hairy old bikers coming in, and yesterday they came in and started pestering the other girl at work who's 16. They were going on about how nice a smile she has but staring at her chest and stuff, so I was trying to get them out as quickly as possible. She went off to do something and they turned to me and went "hey, you're pretty too!" and I just wanted to yell at them to fuck off but I sold them the stuff and they left.

I always used to attract older guys when I was younger, like when I was fourteen or so I'd easily get thirty year old guys. It's actually kinda worrying - I knew what I was doing and was fine but not every other fourteen year old is!

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I had some kind of stalker for almost three years, and he's 10 years older than me. That's not VERY much, I know, but really enough. He kept on coming to the club he knew I visited regularely, running after me and trying to get into a conversation (*), plus I was plastered with stupid e-mails. I mean, this guy is way taller than me, fat, a pseudo evilevil wiking metaller, long-haired and sweaty - you get the idea - and he writes like a gay fairy! >__________<
But luckily I have my bestbuddie, he's always there for me to... ahm... make the annoying men just wanna leave.
(*) Like once I switched rooms of the club to talk to a friend when a HUUUUUGE hand not padded but smashed my shoulder. Turning aroung, my thoughts were like OMFG, A TROLL!!! when his face was suddenly about 30 cm away from mine. He growled something like "hi!" and I was like "Yeah, bye!" and just left. xD

Oh, and once there was this creepy 40+ goth guy with this stupid stake and hat who bothered me while I waited for my coffee. I didn't even react to him but he kept brabbling bullshit. Then - daddaaa - my knight in shiny armour appeared and told the creep to shut the fuck up. ^____^
The same guy wrote his phone number on a piece of paper later the evening and pushed it into the dekoletée of a 16 year old! I was near to ripping his head off!!!

So, male friends AND BROTHERS (!!!) are GREAT to keep these freaks off.


@ Roxanne: Holy crap, I would have freaked completely. And I guess I would have started to insult the creep veeery harshly. xD

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The janitor at my school is totally a pedo. You can see him checking out all these girls in the hallway. And he always cleans near the girl's bathrooms, never the boy's.

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When I went Barfly (Camden) there was this guy in his mid 30's who tried chatting me up, I didn't know what to do I paniked... luckily my friend - Sophie - could see the situation I was in and dragged my away. He then tried hitting on the friend that saved me - her younger sister, Vikki... but in alot worse way then he'd tried hitting on me, infact he was vile to Vikki!! Sophie went up to him and said that she was Vikki's big sister and if he valued his life, to back the hell away. After that, a couple of times he would walk past me or Vikki and pinch our arses!! So we talked to the bouncers about it, he'd made a quick escape, so nothing could be done.

I find it sooo disgusting, I find that it's people like that, that make me scared to have a relationship. It makes me scared to approach, or to be approached be men, then I build walls because I'm too scared Happy

Wow I've never opened like that before... thanks Happy

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