What's making you mad?

328 replies since 26th March 2007 • Last reply 26th March 2007

Aww big *hugs* queenfairypants Happy

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big hugs *hugs* queenfairypants im sooooo sorry

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thanks everyone

and speaking of smoking, I'm definatly going to quit now, well try again anyway and I think cold turkey is best!

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Sorry to now trivialise this thread, but I'm mad at myself today. I've really liked this boy at college for ages, and I've tried a few times to talk to him but it hasn't worked so I wrote him this letter just saying I want to chat to him and giving him my email address, and I gave it to him as he got off the college bus today and he got off the bus and started reading it! I couldn't look at him and someone at the back of the bus went "Oh, poor Fred!" like it was this terrible travesty that I like him, and like...it is. I'm just so angry cause maybe if I was some pretty popular girl that every guy wanted, a letter like that would be nice, but coming from me it's probably just creepy and stalkerish and I can't believe I thought it was a good idea! I'm just going to have to avoid him from now on =(

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I'm sorry to hear about your grandfather Queenfairypants Happy *big hugs*

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I went to help out clear out his flat today it wasn't as upsetting as I thought, I got some old pics and two bibles he had that were in welsh, one was my grandads one was my great grandads given to him when he was 17 in 1921! nearly falling apart though might be able to get someone to fix the spine, well add a totally new one to it cuz it doesnt have one! I might get one of my grandads rings as well. I hope when I'm gone I still have this stuff for my family to have you find out a lot about your family at times like these.

Thanks again everyone.

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Kitten I admire you for being so bold. Don't worry about it. This stuff seems to big now but it calms down and becomes a tiny little footnote in your life or forgotten all together. Also I can't believe someone had ZERO tact by saying that while you were within earshot. The nerve of some people.

I did something similar in my teens. Looking back, I am so glad I said something rather than pining away. I am still appalled at how people try to quantify the value of people beginning in their teens. We are so horrid to each other.
Just in case you wanted to know, nothing came of the first boy I told him that I liked him when I was 13.
At 15 another boy told me her was dating an acquaintance of mine.
At 17 another boy told me he wouldn't date outside his race.

I recovered. I have a good feeling you will find someone who deserves your attention.

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Knitten Kitten- When I was in 8'th grade I wrote this senior a note. I thought he was the hottest thing ever and didn't care that he was older. Turns out he wasn't very popular anad thought the note was sweet. My parents wouldn't let me go on a date with him though because he was older and thought he was weird because why would a senior go out with and 8'th grader? Turns out he was friends with my brother, which I didn't know . But anyway we ended up being friends and we are still friends today after all this time. I am now 24. I am sure that his friends gave him crap about the note. I didn't even give it to him, my best friend that was in 10'th and had study hall with him did. But I am glad that I did write it and give it to him because we still have a special bond and today I don't think anyone but us remembers the note. So you could get lucky and it could all turn out in the end Happy

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Well it's been like three days and he hasn't added me, or tried to talk to me in college, so I'm taking that as a no. I'm a little upset cause I guess I thought, even if nothing came of it, he might add me. And because I'm me, all I can think is "God, I must be so painfully repulsive that he doesn't even want to TALK to me". I know it's silly, but there we go. It's just...I never like nice guys. Never. And he is, so I thought if he talked to me I could be happy, for once.

Eien, I would have smacked that last guy.

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Aww, poor queenfairypaints and poor Kitten.

Kitten - I've been in the situation where I thought something was a great idea at the time (usually while drunk) and then really regretted it afterwards too. At least you've got it out of your system and you wont be left thinking "what if?". If it's still really embarrassing to look at him on the bus, try speaking really loudly about how your "boyfriend" has planned a romantic night out for Valentine's day and make sure he overhears. You never know, maybe he'll get jealous.

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Haha nice plan Cat =P eurgh, every other guy I like is in a relationship as well.

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yeh I've never had attention from guys like my friends did and once in college I just decided to tell this guy I liked him but I'd been so obvious anyway and oh god but yeh it turns out alright in the end, it happens when you least expect and all that but its true!

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I have never ever told a guy how I feel unless he's said it first. It's something I regret I guess. Even though now I'm in a happy relationship, I just wish that in the past I'd been a bit more assertive. I don't think it's something I'll ever be able to do though.

I really wish I had the guts you do, Kitten!

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I dunno that it's being brave, it's probably more stupidity.

I did a similar thing when I was...what, just twelve. I was on holiday and France and it was just after I'd been through some pretty horrible stuff, and I saw this guy and he just seemed so perfect. I kept wanting to talk to him but being too scared, so on the last night I gave him a note with my number and email address on it and ran away haha. But he followed me back to my caravan and he had a chat and said he was going to add me. And, well, I fell madly in love with him, and even now I still talk to him, even though we're just friends. Sometimes it works out. Sometimes it just goes horribly wrong, like this time!

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It's ok KK, i am sorry though....Happy im sorry i cant offer any advice i just broke up with my boyf (GRRR IHATE HIM!!!).....

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