nosey friend >.<
so i have a "boyfriend" (the fact that i like boys again is its own discussion) and things are going fine it's early so no titles -the reason for the word boyfriend in quotations-or anything huge ,but my dear friend wants to move it forward for me despite all the demands of mine for her not to she wants to ask him and i keep telling her no because it's just not that big a deal to me and i have no idea what to to about her
Tell her you're a big girl able to handle your own relationships, and that you'll move forward with it if or when you feel comfortable. If she keeps insisting, tell her to back off.
She sounds pretty immature and like she's trying to control your relationship with this guy. I'd tell her to stop acting like a junior higher and let you enjoy the relationship you have with him.
Just remind her that if she truly is your friend she will respect your wishes. If she can't do that then you may need to reevaluate your relationship with her.
Gently but firmly remind her that this is your relationship and that you will handle it however you like. It is not her business, and it is up to you whether you want to move forward or not.
Gah! Is she that excited that you are "back on guys!!!!?" I mean if you are truly liking who you like when you like, it is!! important to go slow, your friend needs to understand that. This isn't the 'next girl" this is a new guy! That is significant! try to make that clear to her.
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