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I've been asking my friends there input on my situation but now i just want to stop. It's been a couple of months and I still have not heard a word from him. He was the first one that I said I love you to, the bad thing.....well he said it back. I heard from friends that he most likely seen my messages but chooses to ignor me. I even asked some random guy at school what he thinks and he told me the samething he's blowing me off. It's sucks to admit this but it bothers me deeply to think that it's true. Please someone help me get over this

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5 replies since 4th June 2011 • Last reply 4th June 2011

unfortunatly, this seems to be the new trend with guys. i was seeing this guys for a years and a half when he basically fell off the face of my plant for about 4 months befor he emailed me that "it wasn't gonna work out"- well gee, at least hes not dead.
recently i stared seeing this other guy who i really liked (and i thought he felt the same) he hadnt called or texted me in like 2 weeks. When i finally sent a text like wtf dude? he told me to take it easy. Whatever!
basically, although i hate to admit it, we r being blown off Happy

anyway, what im trying to say is this isnt only happening to you, stay stong and move on a new boy Happy

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Yea, my friend Jenny is on the dating market and it seems that guys just stop responding when they don't take an interest. It's really annoying and I want to slap these stupid boys- it's no wonder that they are single.

I'm sorry that you're having to go through that, it's a tough break when you tell someone you love them and then get that sort of response back.

My best advice to you is to not give your heart away so easily, keep it safe until you really do meet the right guy. And in case you're wondering how you know when you meet the right guy, the right guy isn't someone that you're going to be in love with the rest of your life, he's the guy you both need and want to always have in your life.

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well it's allways good to know that your not alone in these sucky times. thank you both its ganna be a long while until i get the nerve to tell him off i've tried to loads of times but i just dont have the courage to i guess. in a way i guess it's funny because women created man, without us their would will fall apart, but they still have the nerve to treat us like crap

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I think the best ways to view relationships is a Bonus attitude. You have your life, your friends, crafts and whatever else you love. If a guy happens to talk to you or ask you out it's a bonus but not what your entire life is dependent on.

also, my friend has read a few books and told me some advice that she's tried and works: never text/email/etc quickly, wait at least 20min; try not to be the 1st to suggest something, let them feel like "the boss".

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if u want a response text him something important. i do that to my guy when hes been at the pub and promised to text, i just say something like "im worried about u, its been X amount of time and u said u would text me"

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