has anyone have a boyfriend no one would ever think you to would go out... well this guy i met in 7th grade when he was in 8th grade we went out and then we didnt see each other for a year cause he went off to high school and just this year which is my freshman year and it is his sophmore year we got back with each other and he is the type of guy were he is invovled with drugs and latley he had to go to juvie for somthing he did and when i found out he had to go to juvie i told him not to tell me and so i have never felt so - or i think - in love with somebody and i dont to lose him what should i do???
i spent 2 years careing 4 a 2 yr old and a 1yr old while there daddy sat in jail 4 selling drugs i was just lucky ididnt go 2 all the letters saying he would change u know what he did after he got out he started smoking crack he stole from lured me out of our house to steal my stuff so forget it leave while u can before he drags you down with him or u get pregnant
now im worried dont go thru what i went thru forget him graduate and find a nice guy you cant help him hes going to be who he is for whatever reason i relly hope you reply i know what you are going thru and hope u listen
I know you love him but my friend was in a similar situation. She was working her arse off for like 40 odd hours a week, getting ok money and stuff. They were together for about 2 years, he supposedly used to be on cocaine before he was with my friend and stopped for her (or something like that). It weren't the entire time of their relationship, but within the last 6 months before they broke up he was asking money from her everyday for petty excuses, he was lying, he was smoking weed anyways, but we found out that he was back on coke (although he would never admit it).
He will never be off of drugs for you and could you ever imagine yourself settling with a crack-head? It would never work, it would cause you nothing but misery financially, emotionally and mentally. He will probably be in and out of prison his whole life, never fully being able to spend time with you and when he comes out he will probably just end up accusing you of doing stuff behind his back whilst he was in prison.
I know it is not easy, you love him, but girl you are young. Give yourself time, there are much better guys out there for you that will actually appreciate everything about you and take care of you and love you the way you deserve to be loved.
You are young & 'in love' but you are seeing the world though rose tinted glasses. This guy may be your world now but in a few years when you havn't been able to do your studies because you are worried what he's doing, when you have no money, your stuff has gone to pay for his habit and you can't afford to pay for heating or food the glasses you look through will be grimey and broken and so will your heart. Give yourself a chance to be the best you can be for yourself first then you can truely love another. I wouldn't like to think that you would look back at decisions you make now with regrets. Please look after yourself x
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