New Hair - how bad is it???

Soooo my Boyfriend likes me as a readhead. I haven't been one in ages. He's coming home from his military duty soon ( like, coming home for real, ending his work there, ohmygoshI'msohappyyyyyy!!! ), and I wanted to surprise him...

Since my bangs were still blonde from all my Direction madness, I thought we had to make some part of my hair black, including the bangs. Not the MOST stupid idea, untill I learned that my hairdresser wanted to bleach the upper rest of my hair too so I could as well have had red bangs... xD

Uhm... weeeell, long story short, here I come, and very unlike me, I'm EXTREMELY insecure about how it looks. Esp. since I'm afraid my BF doesn't like it. ^^
Don't get me wrong, the colour is mindblowing and I love it, but the bangs, THE BANGS......
( Edit: Plus, in a moment of weakness, my brother told me he didn't like it, and though normally I don't care since we prefer completely different styles, it did hit me... )

( Excuse stupid censorship, I was REALLY insecure that day. ^^ )




Tell me what you think, please, and no, you don't need to worry about my self-confidence, normally it's pretty ok. ^^ So no peptalk, just opinions please.

Ktnxbye! Tongue

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17 replies since 14th October 2010 • Last reply 14th October 2010

Its pretty awesome! And congratulations on your boyfriend ending his duty and leaving the military for good!

My Mr. Wonderful has to do a two year compulsory military duty where I live and I hate it. But at least I still can see him once a week when he gets off.

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Once a week??? Lucky you, my special someone and me saw eachother three times a YEAR. ^^
By the way, thank you very much for your opinion. Tongue

Ok gals, since today I'm feeling better, I made some new pictures with my recenlty favorite Updo ( which is... messy something... ), so here it goes...


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I love it! I think it looks really good. Love the messy updo as well.

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I love your hair, it looks awesome! I only wish I could do something like that to mine, but my work wouldn't be happy.

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Awww so pretty, you are a beautiful girl and the bangs bring out your eyes. it looks realy cool with the fire engine red. im sure your boyfriend thinks its amazingly smexy. Happy

-on a side note, i just dyed mine pink since i got a few workless months ahead of me. its not all pink tho just mostly.

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Thank you all for the feedback, I think I'm slowly getting used to it. Just a few hours ago I got lectured by my mom about bleaching, but, yeah, we all do stupid things from time to time. ^^
And if I don't want to get my roots fixed again and again, I'll just go back to black or a dark brown, keeping the lower layers black. That might look neat, too.

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soo cute & cool

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That looks great! xx

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Very cute. You totally need cat eyes now Happy

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Sometimes I feel so stupid... As I said, I wanted to surprise my man with this...
We're both members of a model and photographers community, and I updated my colour changes on my port there. I was -so- sure that he would never log in there in the next two weeks because he seldomly does anyway and he's got stuff to do before leaving.
But yesterday as we talked on the phone, he said he recieved an e-mail, telling him someone had send him a message there and before I knew it, he had logged in ( and of course also checked by my profile ) and he was like... why does it say your hair is red??? >______<

Had to tell him, he insisted on seeing pictures... and he actually likes it. ^^ Yay!

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I love it. Glad he likes it too. I think it wouldn't have mattered to him as much as you think. The main thing is he is coming home. Enjoy some R & R with your fella Happy

I've just updated my hair to vivid red. My fella thinks it's 'wicked'. I went to work forgetting I'd had it done and wondered why everyone was staring...LOL

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It really does look good, especially in that messy updo

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It looks really cool and I love how it looks up.

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It does look really nice, and glad your man likes it too Happy

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