i gave this to my mother in law for her birthday and she loved it! i used youtube to figure these out and this is the two links for the flower and the headband
headband: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iS39tjLyeyk
the flower: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6fcuhwbdDU&feature=relmfu

as long as ya live close i might be able to sell if you would like as well :) let me know and i'll see what i can do