It must be hard on you. You take his interests to heart but it doesn't seem like he does the same for you. That is definitely tough. And to have people criticize your relationship when you both have been together 7 years and know more about each other than anyone else. Don't let mean, lurking people on boards get to you, Since they are just looking for someone to criticize to make themselves feel better. Be Strong! I'm sure you both can work things out. I know I'm not much help, but hang in there!