very odd, dont like em at all, I got an e-mail like that supposedly from a girl called mercy ! what rubbish it was creepy, I tried to view the message after an allert from my hotmail and it said the link expired, unable to acsess it so I think this person was blocked but very strange behaviour :/ unerving is the word.
I had slightly more tom boyish friends who loved vampires. Im 16 but the best advice I can give, are cool tu tu like skirts with spider fabrics or red netting give a girly feel whilst not being over powering girly wise. Also bracelets, and custom bags make excellent choices for less girly girls.